Compatibility of 壬 with 癸: Yang Water and Yin Water
Each text reads the relationship from 壬, the first person: whoever is asking, for partners and siblings; the mother, the father or the mother-in-law, in the others.
Partners
- 壬 Yang Water
- 癸 Yin Water
Rain falling on the sea
Rain falls on the open sea and simply joins it. Both are Water, so each is Rob Wealth for the other. That's the star of the sibling who shares and competes. They tend to understand each other's moods and depths. Talk can run late into the night.
Rob Wealth can stir rivalry over money and attention. The river may swallow the rain's quieter voice. The rain may pull back, hurt. Keep some money separate. Make sure the quieter one is heard first in big decisions.
Deep understanding with some competition; fair turns keep the waters calm.
Siblings
- 壬 Yang Water
- 癸 Yin Water
The river and the rain
Rain falls into the river, and soon you can't tell them apart. These siblings are Rob Wealth to each other, the star of the close rival. They share moods, worries and dreams very easily. They often rally together quickly when the family needs them.
Being so alike, they compete in quiet ways. Who's smarter, who's freer, who got the better deal? Lending money between them can cause lasting tension. It helps to keep shared money simple and written down. Each can respect the other's pace: one moves fast, the other slowly. Then sharing feels like a gift, not a loss.
Very alike, quietly competitive; simple, written money matters keep it friendly.
Mother and son
- 壬 Mother · Yang Water
- 癸 Son · Yin Water
The river and the rain
Rain falls into a river and you can't tell them apart anymore. Same water, different size. Here the mother is the river and the child is the rain. Being the same element, they often sense each other's moods. Each is Rob Wealth for the other, the star of siblings and rivals. In plain words, they're close allies with a competitive streak.
The child may feel swallowed up by her big presence. She may feel the child quietly goes their own way. Disputes over time, space or money at home can come up. What helps is fair, open sharing. Each has their own corner, their own say. She can make room for the child's voice. The child can speak up instead of slipping away.
A close bond with a competitive streak; fair sharing and room for the child's voice keep it easy.
Father and daughter
- 壬 Father · Yang Water
- 癸 Daughter · Yin Water
The river and the morning mist
On autumn mornings, mist lifts off a big river. Same water, one heavy and one light. This father is the river and his daughter is the mist. To each other they are Rob Wealth, the star of rivalry and shared effort. They tend to sharpen each other and keep each other moving.
The friction is that both like to get their own way, each in their own style. He may push loudly, while she slips round him quietly. Little battles over money, space or attention may follow. It helps when they compete on the same team. A shared project gives that energy somewhere good to go.
They tend to spur each other on; a shared project turns rivalry into teamwork.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
- 壬 Mother-in-law · Yang Water
- 癸 Daughter-in-law · Yin Water
Rain falling on the river
Rain falls into a river and simply becomes part of it. You can't tell where one ends and the other begins. The daughter-in-law is the rain, the mother-in-law the river. Each is Rob Wealth to the other, the star of the rival sibling. They share sensitivity, intelligence and a quick sense of what others feel. In plain words: they are alike in deep ways, and that can bring them close.
Sameness can also mean competing for the same place. Both may want to be the one the family turns to. The younger woman may feel swallowed by the older one's big presence. It helps to give each her own role. Kind words about the other in front of the family soften any rivalry.
Deeply alike; separate roles keep closeness from turning into competition.