Compatibility of 癸 with 壬: Yin Water and Yang Water

A raindrop falls into a river and is carried along. Both are Water, so each is Rob Wealth for the other. That's the star of the sibling who shares and competes. They tend to read each other's moods easily. There's depth, and plenty to talk about.

The river may take over, and the rain may feel lost. Money and credit can become a quiet contest. Keep some money separate. Let the rain lead in some areas. Name the rivalry with a laugh before it grows.

Deep connection with a pinch of rivalry; fair turns keep the rain from getting lost.

Two buckets drawn from the same well: one big, one small, same water. These siblings are Rob Wealth to each other, the star of the close rival. They read each other easily and share a deep, private world. When one is in trouble, the other often shows up first.

The big bucket can take more than its share. The river sibling may rush ahead, and the rain sibling may feel left behind. Money and favors between them need care. It helps to be open and clear about who gives what. Each can cheer the other's wins without measuring. Then the well stays full for both.

Deeply alike and quietly rivals; openness about giving keeps it fair.

A raindrop falls into the sea and becomes part of something huge. Here the mother is the raindrop and the child is the big water. Being the same element, they read each other easily. Each is Rob Wealth for the other, the star of siblings and rivals. In plain words, they're allies who can also compete for space.

The child's big presence may overwhelm her. She may feel overruled in her own home. The child may feel she is too sensitive or too private. What helps is clear sharing of time, space and say. She keeps her voice even when the child is louder. The child learns to make room. Respect for each other's style keeps them on the same team.

A close bond where the child's strong presence can crowd the mother; clear sharing keeps them a team.

Rain runs down the hill and joins a fast mountain stream. Before long, you can't tell the drops from the current. Here the father is the rain and his daughter the stream. To each other they are Rob Wealth, the star of rivalry and fellowship. They tend to egg each other on.

The friction is that she may sweep past him, and he may feel left behind. Both like to have the last word. Small contests over money, plans or credit can grow. It helps when each knows their own role. It helps when they celebrate each other's wins instead of counting them.

They tend to push each other forward; cheering each other on keeps the rivalry warm.

A light drizzle and a full river are both water, but one whispers and the other roars. The mother-in-law is the drizzle; the daughter-in-law the river. Each is Rob Wealth to the other, the star of the rival sibling. They share a quick mind and deep feelings. In plain words: they understand each other well, perhaps too well.

The river can drown out the drizzle. The older woman may feel overshadowed by the younger one's strong energy. Both may compete for the same people's attention. It helps to give each her own place and honour. A little praise from the younger woman, in front of others, goes far.

Alike in mind and heart; separate roles and public praise keep rivalry soft.