Compatibility of 壬 with 甲: Yang Water and Yang Wood

A willow grows best right at the river's edge. Its roots drink and its branches shade the water. For the river, the tree is the Eating God, the star of ease and gentle giving. For the tree, the river is Indirect Resource, quiet and unusual support. The river tends to feed the tree's growth. The tree gives the river joy and purpose.

The river may give too much and feel spent. The tree may take the support as given. The river's care can also come in strange moods. Thank the river often. Plan together where the branches should grow.

A nourishing, easy match where the river feeds and the tree gives back shade and joy.

Along a big river, forests grow thick and green. The river sibling tends to nourish the tree sibling in a broad, generous way. To the river, the tree is the Eating God, the star of enjoyment and natural giving. Helping this sibling often feels easy and good. To the tree, the river is the Indirect Resource, support that comes in unusual forms. Ideas, contacts, a fresh view: the river brings them.

Too much water can drown roots. The river sibling may flood the tree with plans and advice. The tree may feel it has no say. It helps when the river offers and then waits to be asked. The tree can share how it's really doing. Steady, measured help grows the strongest trunk.

Generous support that comes easily; offering, then waiting to be asked, works best.

Along a wide river, the tallest trees grow. Their roots drink from it all year. Here the mother is the river and the child is the tree. For her, the child is the Eating God, the star of joy and easy pleasure. This child tends to make her proud and happy. For the child, she is Indirect Resource, the star of unusual, quiet support. She tends to feed their mind and give them room to grow.

Rivers move, though. She may be busy, restless or off in her own plans, and the child may feel left to grow alone. Her help can come in waves, not every day. What helps is a regular rhythm: a set time to talk, a weekly ritual. The child also does well by telling her what they need. She usually gives generously once she knows.

A nourishing bond where the child brings joy; a steady routine makes the mother's support easier to feel.

Willows grow best right on the riverbank. Their roots drink all year long, so they never go thirsty. This daughter tends to grow tall on her father's steady flow. To him, she is his Eating God, the star of pleasure and natural giving. Helping her often makes him happy.

To her, he is her Indirect Resource, the star of unusual ideas and quiet support. He may teach her to think big and wander far. The friction is that a river can flood its banks. His energy may sometimes feel like too much. She may also take his support for granted. It helps when he slows his pace for her.

He tends to nourish his daughter freely, and slowing down helps her take it in.

Tall trees grow along riverbanks because the water feeds their roots. Here the mother-in-law is the river and the daughter-in-law is the tree. To the older woman, the younger is the Eating God, the star of enjoyment and generosity. She tends to delight in this young woman's growth. To the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is the Indirect Resource, the star of quiet, unusual support. In plain words: the older woman feeds, and the younger one grows.

Too much water can drown roots. The mother-in-law may give advice, food and help in floods. The daughter-in-law, standing tall, may want to grow her own way. It helps when the older woman waits to be asked. The younger can return the care with visits and news, so the river doesn't feel taken for granted.

A nourishing bond; it thrives when help is offered gently and returned with care.